How to lift your spirit when you are down

Each of us has its own monster that is eating us. It could be a failed relationship, it could be your work, it could be your friend, it could be your studies, it could be anything! With so many issues, often times we feel so down and helpless that even reading so many motivational articles or watching self help videos won’t help.

We are all unique. What may have worked for others may not work for you. Most of the times, we know exactly what we need to do, so basically you don’t really need to look for inspiring quotes or whatsoever. However, even if we know what we are to do, we just cannot do it. Why? Because it’s human nature to stick with what we’re used to.

Sometimes we blame other people when things got messed up, sometimes we put the blame to ourselves, and ask why? It is me? Am I not doing enough?

I also have my fair share of mistakes in life, I blame other people and most of the time I blame myself. But you know, blaming doesn’t help anything. It just put you in a misery. When your road becomes darker, turn on your headlight. There could also be a curve at the end of the tunnel, so take precautions, drive slowly. In life, there are so many events that could happen that you get confuse and don’t know what to do, stop for a while, check on yourself, turn on your headlight. Your headlight is your optimism! When you have it, you can go miles away, but don’t forget you need a gasoline, so carry your confidence, and make sure to bring with you your driving license. That’s your smile.

I’m a crazy person, i thought that by doing skydiving I would gain confidence, I would feel that I’m brave, and all those positive spirits, but I was wrong. It’s not something you can pick up just because you did something what others believe to be extreme! It’s all in the mind. If you change the way you think, everything around you will change! Always look at the brighter side.

You probably have so many detractors around you, remember, you cannot just control the way other people treat you. Let it be. Stop living your life in the judgement of others, why worry if you can choose to be happy? Stop wasting your time worrying about what other people think or treat you. Go out of your house, feel free. It’s your life. You are the driver of your own life, so whatever happens, it’s all up to you. Keep moving forward.