If I were a doctor, I am definitely Choi Eun Suk of Scent of a Woman, insensitive, harsh and frank; his chilly protective outer layer yet vulnerable underbelly and his nervously adorable boyish side underneath it all. AKONG AKO! :D
People hate this kind of person, but in my case, I love it. Why? Because this is my favorite among my personalities. Speak with honesty. At least, hindi ako nagpapaasa at nagpapaniwala sa alam ko naman na hindi na pwede.
Reality is Reality, it will hurt for sure. Kahit sa paanong paraan mo pa rin siya sabihin, makakasakit ka pa rin, kasi hindi nila gusto yung maririnig nila. Sa mata ng ibang tao, sobrang sama ng mga taong katulad namin, sabi nga nila, WALANG preno ang bibig, pero magkaiba naman at TAKLESA sa nagsasabi ng totoo. I think it also depends on the situation. A doctor is a doctor; he has to tell his patients what he needs to know. If I am the receiver of the news, I would want to slap the doctor telling me I am dying and has no hope. But he is stating a reality. He is a doctor, he is not god. Unlike, doctors who keep on telling his patients and families to stay in the hospital kahit na alam naman ng wala ng pag asa. Why not let that patient enjoy his remaining days happy? AND NOT in the hospital chamber waiting for his death. I just couldn’t stand doctors like that.
There’s a saying “You cannot please everyone to like you” kahit sobrang ganda pa ng sinasabi mo, if ayaw ka ng tao, lahat ng sasabihin mo laging my “dating” or “ibang ibig sabihin” para sa kanila. Even if you wanted to explain, since they dislike you, they won’t listen. For them, you’re still the bad girl.
Just be yourself. Your “Real Friend” will stay with you. Basta make sure, wala ka sinasaktan tao, or wala kang ginagawang masama. It ain't easy to live a life with many enemies. Mas okay, if you’ll have many people around you, loving you. If many people are mad at you, perhaps, there is really something wrong about you. Reflect on yourself.
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