Too Insensitive? Or They're just too sensitive?

kapag tayo sinabihan ng "hindi natin gusto", iisipin nila, your words are nasty or that you are a bad person. We must learn to accept criticism, this will help us to improve. I received a lot of that, like when someone insulted my work during college days when I really believed it was perfectly done,  I wanted to curse that person coz it feels terribly bad, but then, taking it negatively won't change anything. Why not take it possitively and use this as your motivation to improve? Take time to think, that person might be right afterall. Hindi pwdeng lagi yung gusto natin ang maririnig natin. Kasi kung ganon lang, get a recorder, utuin mo yung sarili mo paulit ulit. 

I received so many criticisms from my friends regarding my manner of speaking. Napaisip ako, kasi para sakin, it's natural(an honest way of saying things - straightforward/frank) but for other people iba na yung dating(offensive!). Kung isa lang siya, d ako maniniwala, pero dahil marami sila, they might be right. So what i did? Sometimes I would rather not talk if I can't find the right words to say. It's hard to remain silent when you know something must be said!  Change doesn't happen overnight. It's indeed a very very long way to go most especially when you've been like that eversince.